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		<title>I usually hate to double post, but&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 13:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m proud of this: From songsforyourday 1. &#8220;Brother&#8221;- Annuals 2. &#8220;Zebra&#8221; &#8211; Beach House 3.  &#8221;Running, Returning&#8221; -Akron/Family 4. &#8220;Blackbird&#8221;- Andrew Bird 5. &#8220;The Orchids&#8221;- Califone 6. &#8220;Lost Ring Finger&#8221;- Anathallo __ I wish that I could remember the specifics for you, the names and dates we learned about the bridge in physics class. It [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reallyrelyay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11084521&amp;post=91&amp;subd=reallyrelyay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m proud of this:</p>
<p>From <a title="Songs for Your Day!" href="http://www.songsforyourday.com">songsforyourday</a></p>
<p>1. &#8220;Brother&#8221;- Annuals</p>
<p>2. &#8220;Zebra&#8221; &#8211; Beach House</p>
<p>3.  &#8221;Running, Returning&#8221; -Akron/Family</p>
<p>4. &#8220;Blackbird&#8221;- Andrew Bird</p>
<p>5. &#8220;The Orchids&#8221;- Califone</p>
<p>6. &#8220;Lost Ring Finger&#8221;- Anathallo</p>
<p>__</p>
<p>I wish that I could remember the specifics for you, the names and dates we learned about the bridge in physics class. It was somewhere in the midwest, that much I can recall, way back when our parents were young. It was built over the course of a decade, and crumbled in the course of a day. The architect built a beautiful red limb spanning the river. It was inanimate- so they assumed.</p>
<p>Until the day it came to life. The commuters hit their brakes, then sprang from their cars, running to the solid ground as the concrete began to wave beneath them. They watched their vehicles fall through the cracks of asphault to be devoured by the river.</p>
<p>What the architect forgot was resonance. The effect that the hymn of the wind would have on the bridge that caused it to dance, twirl, tumble, and collapse.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the most specific thing I can recall for you, that feeling. When I hear these songs, that bridge comes to mind. That feeling when the earth takes on a life of its own, and we all stand to the side, asphyxiated.</p>
<p>-Laura Celeste</p>
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		<title>DIY Project of the week!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2010 16:54:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For my first DIY/Art project post, I&#8217;m really excited to share with you a collaborative wedding experiment Michael and I did for our Save the Dates. Our wedding is going to be predominately DIY (especially things like invitations, place cards, displays, center pieces and decorations). We&#8217;re really excited to make this whole experience one to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reallyrelyay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11084521&amp;post=70&amp;subd=reallyrelyay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>For my first DIY/Art project post, I&#8217;m really excited to share with you a collaborative wedding experiment Michael and I did for our Save the Dates. Our wedding is going to be predominately DIY (especially things like invitations, place cards, displays, center pieces and decorations). We&#8217;re really excited to make this whole experience one to remember. Plus, we like getting our hands dirty!</p>
<p>We decided to approach the project with our favorite stencil/acrylic combination, mediums we are both familiar enough with to have confidence that we will do a good job. We developed the initial designs together in Adobe Illustrator, separating the image layers one per stencil. The whole project was 5 stencils in all, one for the lettering (which Michael took on, because of his amazing precision with an x-acto knife) and two for the grass blades and dandelions. We had three different types of blank invitations, with varying textures/sheens to them, just to see what the paint adhered best to.</p>
<p>For a first round we were pretty happy with the results! Now we just have to go back and adjust the kerning and size of the &#8220;Announcing the wedding of&#8221; line so that it&#8217;s legible, and add some white to the lighter blue for a better contrast.</p>
<p>Now we have to whittle down the venues so we can actually pick a date!</p>
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		<title>Molly will write you a poem</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 21:06:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If there was ever something, anything: a feeling, experience, verb, or noun, that you wished someone else would articulate for you, your wait is over. Molly will write you a poem for a dollar. It could be about you! or cake! or trees! or fiddles! or opening letters! Whatever you wish! Yes, just one dollar [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reallyrelyay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11084521&amp;post=78&amp;subd=reallyrelyay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If there was ever something, anything: a feeling, experience, verb, or noun, that you wished someone else would articulate for you, your wait is over. <a href="http://greencitynews.blogspot.com/2010/03/for-100-i-will-write-you-poem-and-post.html">Molly will write you a poem for a dollar</a>. It could be about you! or cake! or trees! or fiddles!<a href="http://greencitynews.blogspot.com/2010/03/letter-opener.html"> or opening letters</a>! Whatever you wish!</p>
<p>Yes, just one dollar could get you a custom tailored and trimmed poem. You could print it out and carry it with you in your wallet. You could recite it under your breath as you fall asleep. You could hang it on your walls.</p>
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		<title>A Short Story in Traffic</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 13:49:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Written in conversation between Michael and I, concerning the endless possibilities of things that could take place in a morning commute: Me: worst traffic ever! Michael: RAWR! I&#8217;m still sitting in it! Me: &#8230;? How is that possible? [You do not have a smart phone. It is in fact a Nokia phone you got more [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reallyrelyay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11084521&amp;post=76&amp;subd=reallyrelyay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Written in conversation between Michael and I, concerning the endless possibilities of things that could take place in a morning commute:</em></p>
<div><strong>Me: </strong> worst traffic ever!</div>
<div><strong>Michael:</strong> RAWR! I&#8217;m still sitting in it!</div>
<div><strong>Me:</strong> &#8230;? How is that possible? [You do not have a smart phone. It is in fact a Nokia phone you got more than two years ago, when we were first dating.]</div>
<div><strong>Michael:</strong> chuckle chuckle</div>
<div><strong>Me:</strong> Oh. Har Har.</div>
<div><strong>Me:</strong> Traffic was so slow that verizon had time to upgrade your phone and deliver it to you in transit.</div>
<div><strong>Michael:</strong> dropped it through the moon roof</div>
<div><strong>Me:</strong> from a helicopter</div>
<div><strong>Me:</strong> and a man on a rope ladder climbed down and gave you a Droid. &#8220;Thank you,&#8221; you said, &#8220;how do I activate this?&#8221;</div>
<div>He responded by tossing you down  a manual, which gave you a papercut above your left eye as it fell.</div>
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<div id=":bb" dir="ltr">&#8220;Oh, thank you!&#8221; you said, but he was already twenty feet above you, and flying off into the city&#8217;s haze.</div>
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		<title>Paris, Je T&#8217;aime</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 18:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Forget google street view, I want to see every major city like this: All of the visual benefits of being in a hot-air balloon, without any damage to your bank account, or fear of heights.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reallyrelyay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11084521&amp;post=73&amp;subd=reallyrelyay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Forget google street view, I want to see every major city like <a href="http://www.paris-26-gigapixels.com/index-fr.html">this</a>:</p>
<p><a href="http://reallyrelyay.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/screen-capture.png"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-74" title="Paris- Peter Pan Style" src="http://reallyrelyay.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/screen-capture.png?w=406&#038;h=199" alt="" width="406" height="199" /></a></p>
<p>All of the visual benefits of being in a hot-air balloon, without any damage to your bank account, or fear of heights.</p>
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		<title>At the starting line, waiting for the gun</title>
		<link>http://reallyrelyay.wordpress.com/2010/03/18/at-the-starting-line-waiting-for-the-gun/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 18:58:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life in General]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This post title could be a song title. Patent pending. So many things have happened since the last post, a list is necessary. 1. Michael proposed! (I said yes!) What I have learned since this has happened is that most women, if they know you&#8217;re engaged, are much more interested in the engagement ring than [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reallyrelyay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11084521&amp;post=68&amp;subd=reallyrelyay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post title could be a song title. Patent pending.</p>
<p>So many things have happened since the last post, a list is necessary.</p>
<p>1. Michael proposed! (I said yes!)</p>
<p><em>What I have learned since this has happened is that most women, if they know you&#8217;re engaged, are much more interested in the engagement ring than they are you. A woman grabbing my hand = &#8220;hello, how are you?&#8221;</em></p>
<p><em>The wedding will be almost 100% DIY, which both Michael and I are excited about. So prepare yourself for some very crafty posts. Center pieces, place cards, invitations, announcements, the whole deal. </em></p>
<p>2. We joined a kickball team!</p>
<p><em>The season starts this Sunday! </em></p>
<p>3. My car died. (sadface)</p>
<p><em>Cause of death: failed fuel pump. </em></p>
<p><em>We all knew this would happen, from the first side-swipe two weeks after purchase. And to be honest,  the night Debbie broke down was one of the more fun/adventurous nights I&#8217;ve had in a while. Separate post concerning the story will follow. </em></p>
<p><em>The cool part is, Michael and I have been carpooling because of this, and despite the stressors of money and undependable transportation, we&#8217;re both having a ton of fun with this. </em></p>
<p>4. I bought a[n electric] piano!</p>
<p><em>It&#8217;s a Nord Electro 3, 61 keys, and I am in love!</em></p>
<p>5. Life is awesome!</p>
<p><em>Exclamation point!</em></p>
<p>6. It&#8217;s almost spring!</p>
<p><em>See number five!</em></p>
<p>That should pretty much cover it.</p>
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		<title>The Girl with the Red Balloon</title>
		<link>http://reallyrelyay.wordpress.com/2010/02/13/the-girl-with-the-red-balloon/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 18:26:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Hobbies]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[atlanta]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[balloon]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[valentine's day]]></category>

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		<title>Snow day in Atlanta.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 20:55:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life in General]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[snow]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[You know what i like about snow in the southeast? When it snows in the southeast the world looks as if it is tucked between white down comforters. There is no harshness about its brevity. It maintains its pristine, white perfection. No noses get chapped, our fingers don&#8217;t freeze through our mittens. It receives the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reallyrelyay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11084521&amp;post=58&amp;subd=reallyrelyay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know what i like about snow in the southeast?<br />
When it snows in the southeast the world looks as if it is tucked between white down comforters.<br />
There is no harshness about its brevity. It maintains its pristine, white perfection. No noses get chapped, our fingers don&#8217;t freeze through our mittens.</p>
<p>It receives the warmest welcome from the earth because, unlike its northern cousin, the snow here doesn&#8217;t loiter. It exits as it entered, unexpected and silent, before the grime can defile it. It flies off, like a bird.</p>
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		<title>Judging books by Covers.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 21:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Writing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Books]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Covers]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Death in the Afternoon]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[For Whom the Bell Tolls]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Jonathan Safran Foer]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[So, a lot of my free time this week has been working on 1. Artwork for my new project 2. My writing portfolio. My goal in the next two years is to get into a good, local, MFA program so that I can eventually write for a living. It&#8217;s felt so good lately to write [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reallyrelyay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11084521&amp;post=53&amp;subd=reallyrelyay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, a lot of my free time this week has been working on 1. Artwork for my new<a href="http://www.365daysinthemaking.wordpress.com"> project</a> 2. My writing portfolio.</p>
<p>My goal in the next two years is to get into a good, local, MFA program so that I can eventually write for a living. It&#8217;s felt so good lately to write on a regular basis. I can feel my literary muscles building again, gaining back the muscle that was lost over the past year. I want to be the next published heavy-weight champion. Of course there&#8217;s actual skill involved, and it&#8217;s subsidiary issues: grammar, tone, voice, etc. Then there&#8217;s dedication. Followed by who you know, how much you mingle. And lastly, and what I&#8217;ve grown to consider the second most pivotal, is how you present yourself.</p>
<p><em><span style="font-style:normal;">This opinion is the product of being constantly surrounded by design, having aesthetically-based personality, and being blissfully surrounded by talented creatives almost 100% of the time. Some people may not feel as if presentation should weigh so heavily into the way their work is interpreted (as the old saying goes, &#8220;Don&#8217;t judge a  book by its cover&#8221;), and I respect that. But if authors such as Dave Eggers, Jonathan Safran Foer, and Cormac McCarthy find it necessary to develop fonts, styles, and color palettes for their work, than there must be some merit in the fact that books are judged by covers.</span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-style:normal;">Although, sometimes, misjudged. </span></em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-style:normal;">For instance, I frequently wonder if Ernest Hemingway would be enraged with the way his work is currently being presented to the world. For a man who spent his whole life with complete control over his own image,  surely he would strongly dictate his cover art. He would choose more classic design serif fonts in strong leather binding, durable books that could take a beating. Books you could take all over the world with you, with succinct packaging that made a bold statement. (Maybe he would appreciate the simplicity of sans-serif&#8230;) What he would think of his more current book covers: high-glossed and busy geometric patterns with narrow sans serif fonts and classical illustrations harshly imbedded in the center? He might cringe. </span></em></p>
<p>Honestly, the cover of &#8220;The Old Man in the Sea&#8221; in high school made me never want to read Hemingway. It wasn&#8217;t until I found vintage copies of &#8220;For Whom the Bell Tolls,&#8221; &#8220;A Farewell To Arms,&#8221; and &#8220;Death in the Afternoon&#8221; that I really enjoyed his writing, and a lot of that has to do with their tweed hardback covers and minimalist presentation.</p>
<p><em><span style="font-style:normal;">Shame on you Scribners. </span></em></p>
<p>What I&#8217;m really trying to say is, sometimes we&#8217;re supposed to judge a book by its cover.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 18:49:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Straub</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I first met Joe I was hoping to quit my job at the boutique. I was a little late for my interview, the train had delayed me. A waitress went to go find him in the back, and I sat at the bar in my short summer dress, drinking a water, and feeling very [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reallyrelyay.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11084521&amp;post=49&amp;subd=reallyrelyay&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I first met Joe I was hoping to quit my job at the boutique. I was a little late for my interview, the train had delayed me. A waitress went to go find him in the back, and I sat at the bar in my short summer dress, drinking a water, and feeling very out of place.</p>
<div>&#8220;Are you interviewing for a job?&#8221; An older woman said from across the bar.</div>
<div>&#8220;Yes, yes I am.&#8221; I responded nervously while toying with my straw, stirring my ice.</div>
<div>&#8220;Oh, you&#8217;ll be a shoe-in.&#8221;</div>
<div>&#8220;Thank you.&#8221;</div>
<div>The woman, who turned out to be Joe&#8217;s mom, visiting from Wisconsin, turned to a younger woman next to her, Joe&#8217;s sister. &#8220;Don&#8217;t you think she looks just like your cousin?&#8221;</div>
<div>&#8220;I thought that the second she walked in!&#8221; His sister then addressed me, &#8220;Don&#8217;t worry honey, you&#8217;ll get the job.&#8221;</div>
<div>That&#8217;s when Joe walked out, wearing old faded jeans and a Notre Dame football jersey, chewing on a straw. His mom pulled on his arm as he walked by, &#8220;She looks just like your cousin, you should hire her.&#8221;</div>
<div>He smiled and sat down on the barstool next to me. &#8220;You must be Laura.&#8221;</div>
<div>The first thing I noticed about Joe were his eyes, they were brown and full of life, trustworthy. We shook hands.</div>
<div>&#8220;What&#8217;s your favorite beer?&#8221; He asked, twisting the cocktail straw around in his mouth, he leaned nonchalantly across the bar, his elbows almost reaching to the well.</div>
<div>&#8220;ha, I feel like I should say Guinness.&#8221; (It was an Irish pub) &#8220;but there&#8217;s a brewery in Michigan called Bell&#8217;s, and their Two Hearted Ale has my heart. Guinness is in my top five though.&#8221;</div>
<div>&#8220;I know Bell&#8217;s. I&#8217;m from Wisconsin.&#8221;</div>
<div>&#8220;Awesome, I moved here from Indiana.&#8221;</div>
<div>&#8220;Good, a fellow midwesterner. Nicole over there&#8217;s from Michigan.&#8221; He nodded towards the bartender. &#8220;Can you open a bottle of wine?&#8221;</div>
<div>&gt;&gt;&gt;</div>
<div>Those were the only two questions he asked me. My first day was two days later, a Tuesday morning.</div>
<div>Working at the pub gave me the overwhelming sense of community that I had longed for ever since leaving Muncie. The people there got me back on my feet, brought me back to myself.  Joe was as much of a part of this as anyone. He set a pretty good example of how we should behave. I&#8217;m not going to pretend he was perfect. There were most definitely moments where he made me want to pull my hair out, and he put cheddar cheese on his french toast, which will always be weird to me. But he was the kind of guy who was always mindful of other people&#8217;s needs, patron or employee, friend or stranger. Rarely was there a dog on our patio without a treat in its mouth, or a bowl of water between its paws. He built every patio bench we had, which were as wobbly as they were charming. He always attempted the Saturday crossword, but rarely did he finish it. And on Friday nights, when his favorites were all working together, he would bring us stickers, glow sticks, and crafts to play with throughout the shift, just to make things more interesting, and to make the night go by faster.</div>
<div>&gt;&gt;&gt;</div>
<div>It really was just a blessing to know him. He made such a positive contribution to so many of our lives, and was such an integral part of the community, that there&#8217;s no way he&#8217;ll be forgotten. Endless patio-bench bruises will remind the waiters and waitresses every time they forget to empty an ash-tray, or pick up an empty pint. The patrons will mistake him for any tall figure in faded jeans and a football jersey. And there will be many moments, in between the hustle and bustle of the crowded and aged pub walls, where we will take a step back and think about the man who helped bring it all together.</div>
<p>-Laura</p>
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